Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Lucky #7!

December 27th marked the beginning of year Number 7 for Darren and I. It fell on a Sunday this year, so we didn't celebrate until the following week. I think we actually spent the day at my family's house for my brother's birthday. For Christmas, my little brother gave us a hotel stay, so we celebrated the next week. We had everything all planned out, but it turned out to be an interesting anniversary. Nothing seemed to work out quite right, but we still had a great time. It was nice just to spend time together. After my Uncle's house on New Year's Day, we dropped the kids off at my mom's for a sleepover and fed Avery and started our anniversary celebration by going to a movie. We finally redeemed movie passes that we got for Christmas last year and bought tickets online for Blindside. The only problem was we bought tickets and then were running late (Big surprise if you know us, right??) By the time we got to the theater, we were about 10 minutes late and then we had to wait in a long line for online ticket pickup and by the time we got into the movie, we were about 20 minutes late and there was no where to sit. There were a few seats, but all of them were in the middle of rows so we would have to climb over people and none were together. Since it was our anniversary, I didn't think we should watch the movie sitting apart from each other, so we just plopped down on the floor at the back of the theater and watched from there. We discussed other options besides watching the movie from the floor, but we had already worked Avery's feeding schedule around going to the movie and we had just eaten at my uncle's, so we weren't hungry enough to go to dinner, so we just stuck it out....on the dirty theater floor.... It was still a date night, and those are hard to come by around here! Luckily, the movie was one of the best I have seen, so I didn't really care that I was sitting on the floor of a dirty movie theater. Until my butt went numb.....
Next, we went back to my mom's house and fed Avery, and then went to dinner at Tepanyaki, one of our favorite places. It was feeling a little bit like deja vu from Darren's birthday - we stayed at the same hotel, went to the same theater (luckily we did NOT see GI Joe again...) and ate at the same restaurant! But, why mess up a good thing, right? We don't have anything like Tepanyaki in Logan, so we like to eat there when we can and it was too far to go to PF Chang's or the Melting Pot. Tepanyaki was delicious...especially the noodles. The only thing that I don't like about Tepanyaki is the seating arrangement - If you have never been there, it is kind of like Benihana and one of those Japanese places where they cook the food while you watch. There are about 10 seats around the grill, so if you go as a couple, you will sit with several other couples. Our weird evening continued as we sat at a table with some VERY weird people who were drinking a lot of alcohol, dropping tons of "F-bombs", going outside to smoke a lot and talking about sex in a VERY explicit way and having a LOT of drama! So fun! We were glad to get out of there! By the end of dinner, Avery was having a meltdown. My mom had tried everything but she was MAD! We had planned to leave her at my mom's but after we saw how upset she was, we decided that we better just take her with us. I figured it was better to take her than worry about her all night or get a phone call at 2 am. So...Avery crashed our anniversary. Good thing she is so cute, right?
For breakfast the next morning, we went to Mimi's Cafe, which was also what we did on Darren's birthday, but you can't beat their breakfasts! I LOVE their stuffed french toasts, muffins and hot chocolate! Yummm!!! It was not our best anniversary celebration, but not our worst - We had a good time. After having 3 kids, you expect for things to not always go as planned.
A few weeks ago, we went to my parent's ward for church and went to a marriage and family class. In it, they had you make a list of the qualities you admired most about your spouse. I missed most of the class because I was out feeding Avery, but Darren gave me the list he made, and ever since I have been meaning to return the favor. So, in honor of our 7 years, here are 7 things I love about my honey!
1 - He is the BEST father! He is there for everything they do and does so much for the kids. Sometimes I get a little wrapped up in cleaning or other things and don't play with the kids as much as I should, but Darren is so great about getting down and playing with them, changing diapers and spending time with them. I LOVE that and am so lucky that he enjoys it and puts family time as such a priority!
2 - He is a great hubby and helps me do everything! He is understanding and is so great to help around the house, clean bathrooms, give his opinion on my craft projects, whatever. He is also great about getting us out on dates when that is sometimes hard for me. Not that I don't want to go, I just have a hard time leaving the little ones, but he makes it important. He is also so supportive of me getting out and doing things with my friends or sisters or having some "me time" and never complains about taking care of the kids so I can go somewhere.
3- He is such a caring person. He really cares about his patients and other people and goes the extra mile for them. Sometimes I think he may end up getting taken advantage of, especially at work, but he always tells me that sometimes it is just the right thing to help people. He is a great home teacher and loves the families he teaches and his Young Men.
4- He is the BEST cook! I love this because I am NOT and I enjoy his cooking and help in the kitchen a lot! It is great!
5- He is a big nerd when it comes to the Aggies or soccer. That may sound not so nice, but I love how into he gets and that he knows everyone the Aggies are scouting and all the soccer schedules. It is a good thing that I am also a sports fan, or it may get to be a little much, but I love that he loves them so much.
6 - His whistling! Just hearing it makes me smile! If you have never heard him whistle, he is pretty good and is whistling a tune constantly. He even has a special "Webber whistle" that he got from his dad that he uses to find me in crowded places. It is great!
7 - He is my best friend! I love spending time with him, even if it is just hanging out and watching TV and our many lame reality shows that we love. He can always make me smile and laugh and I love that about him! He is so good for me!
I could go on and on.... I am a lucky girl and feel so blessed to have such a great hubby! At my brother-in-laws wedding this past weekend, the sealer said that in a marriage you should always make the other person the best version of themselves. I have always felt that Darren makes me better - I hope that I help him, too. It just seems like we are perfect together and make a great team. I hope we have lots more anniversaries to celebrate together! Love you babe!!!

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Celebrating Six!

Right after Christmas, Darren and I celebrated our SIXTH wedding anniversary!!! It is a little hard to believe that that much time has gone by, but I still feel like the luckiest girl in the world everyday! I have been so blessed with such a wonderful husband, friend, and father to my kids who takes such great care of me and makes me laugh everyday! I LOVE YOU BABE!
Last year, we wanted to do something big to celebrate our 5th anniversary, but it didn't really work out! Rylee was a baby who didn't like being left with ANYONE and wouldn't take a bottle so going anywhere was out of the question. We wanted to go to dinner and a movie, but only made it to dinner. We ate at Outback Steakhouse and Rylee cried THE WHOLE TIME we were gone, so we felt too bad to go to a movie and cut it short. Now that Rylee is happy at Grandma's, we decided to take advantage of it and have a great anniversary just for us! It was FABULOUS!!!
We stayed at the Hilton in Downtown Salt Lake. My brother-in-law works for Hilton and got us a good deal, but we ended up with the wrong paper to check in with and they were SO RUDE!!! Just a note to anyone looking for a hotel, DON'T STAY THERE!!! I was NOT impressed!!! Anyway...We finally got checked in and planned to go to PF Chang's (one of our favorite restaurants) for dinner, but the wait was over 2 hours, so we decided to find somewhere else. The Melting Pot was around the corner and we got a reservation right away, so we tried there. WOW!!! It was AWESOME!!! If you haven't been there, GO!!! It is pretty expensive, but it was DELICIOUS!
Darren dipping in the cheese - This stuff was SO yummy I could have eaten it all day long!!!The BEST part was the dessert! WOW!!! It was AMAZING! The main course was really good, too, but I could have just had the cheese and dessert and been just fine! Here we are TOTALLY stuffed!
Darren and I walking back to our hotel. It was FREEZING outside! We were planning on going to a movie, but dinner took over 2 hours, so we decided to hit the hot tub instead. It was great! There was lots of entertainment - there was a big group who had been skiing all day who were SO drunk, with their kids, of course! They provided some good laughs...
The next day we went to PF Chang's for lunch. We got there a little before noon and there was only 1 other table in the whole place - It was kind of weird! The food was great, as always! I even discovered a new menu item - Walnut Shrimp!!! SO GOOD!

After lunch, we went for a couples massage! Neither one of us had ever had a massage before and it was heavenly! I did hurt the next day though....is that normal??? They messed up our reservation at the massage place too and we almost decided not to do it, but I am glad we did! It was great!

Thanks again D for all you do and for a FABULOUS night out! (And thanks to everyone who helped with the kiddies!!!) It was a great anniversary!

Thursday, December 27, 2007

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!

Today is mine and Darren's 5th Anniversary - That is kind of hard for me to believe! Five years ago today, at 10:20 am, we were sealed in the Salt Lake Temple. It was one of the happiest and most exciting days of my life (the other 2 being the birth of my kids...) The last 5 years have gone by really fast and SO much has happened! We have been through a lot of things and grown so much closer. It is amazing how that happens. You think you love someone so much, but it just continues to deepen as time goes on! Darren is the best husband anyone could ask for, even if I tease him sometimes for watching a little too much soccer or Sports Center! He is so great to me and in honor of our five year anniversary, I've decided to do a little countdown of things about that last 5 years that mean a lot to us and describe our relationship and help keep our marriage strong.

5 - TRIPS TO DISNEYLAND! This sounds a little crazy that we would have actually been there that many times in the last 5 years, but it is true! (All of the trips have been with family, so we actually haven't paid for that many trips, so that is how it has happened...) Disneyland to us is one of the happiest places we could ever be! We have so much fun there - especially now with our kids. It also represents some of our most fun memories, but we have so many other amazing memories ,too. We have had trips to Yellowstone, California, lots of sporting events including Aggie games, USA soccer, and Jazz games, and lots of other fun activities. To me, these are wonderful memories and symbolize how much we love being together and doing things with our family. Spending time and creating special memories are part of what makes our marriage so wonderful!

4- YEARS IN LAS VEGAS. I had to cheat and round up on this one, as we have only been there 3 1/2 years so far, but we will be there about 4 before we move, so I've decided that it counts. It may also seem an odd choice since we don't exactly love it there, but it has been something that has really strengthened our marriage. Living in Las Vegas has given us many challenges and special experiences - including 3 car accidents, a stolen car, and the birth of 2 children - and has helped us to get through everything together. Being so far away from family has helped us rely on each other and made us stronger as a couple and a family.

3 - COLLEGE DEGREES. I am also cheating on this one too since Darren's degree won't be totally finished until May, but I think we are close enough to the end to count it! All of our married years so far have been in school - My accounting degree in 2003, Darren's Biology degree in 2004 (both from Utah State) and now Darren's Dental degree from UNLV. Always being in school has been challenging in many ways, but also a really good way to strengthen our marriage. Being struggling students has taught us the importance of each other and not things and really had us working together to accomplish our goals. It has been a great way to start our marriage!

2 - WONDERFUL KIDS!!!! Our kids have been the greatest blessing in our marriage so far. We love them so much and are so grateful for them. They have taught us so much about unselfishness and giving (and lack of sleep...) and we LOVE them so much. We always say that we don't even remember what we used to do before them or how we spent our time (besides sleep...) but they are our whole world and made our marriage even better. We love our little family so much and watching them grow and learn has been so rewarding. They are definitely some great cheap entertainment, too!

1 - WONDERFUL, AMAZING, GIVING, SENSITIVE, SPECIAL HUSBAND, FATHER and BEST FRIEND. Thanks for all you do for us! You are so good to all of us and are so great to help around the house and are so wonderful with the kids - They adore you and love spending time with you. You work so hard and do so much - I can't imagine my life with anyone more caring or better for us. We are all so lucky to have you. Thanks for an amazing 5 years of wonderful memories and being together It has been more than I could have ever imagined! I am looking forward to so many more! I love you so much, Babe! Happy Anniversary!!!!